What happened to the advice? Or “How to meet your perfect mate”

This blog is entitled Freeguidance, so the few that read this might be wondering where’s the guidance?? Well, I do occasionally post advice, like the Netflix hacks, or how to interrogate the prisoners at Camp X-Ray, but recently I haven’t posted anything like “How to meet your perfect mate”.
So just real quick I’ll go into that. Just like real estate it’s location, location, location. If you have high standards, but only go to dive bars, you should not be surprised that you can’t find that special something. If you want to meet the right person look for them at a place you’d go to together. Example if you are looking to meet a smart, slightly reserved girl, the hot new club might not be the right place, since if she is there she will be there with friends who made her go out and so she’ll feel out of her element and your advances will make her uncomfortable. Even the coffee house of your local bookstore might not be the right place. Where then would you meet such a girl? In the stacks at your local B&N, or reading in chairs that aren’t in the café. There she will be in her element, and more likely to be comfortable and friendly and engage in idle chat with a strange man who asks about a book she’s reading. The location rule is true for girls too; you are likely to meet the right guy in a place where you would want to go with him. Like minds and all.

Advice for you girls:
Many guys now days who aren’t total players are gun shy about first contact. (Remember girls, that total and smooth self confidence is often the sign of a player. (Here’s a hint: if he’s 25+, single and “smooth” then at best he has baggage, at worst he is a predator.)) What’s this means for you girls? You can’t be shy! Even if you aren’t comfortable asking a guy out, you shouldn’t be too shy to make the first move.
If you ask him a question (about anything you want, but don’t be obvious) that makes you approachable, this give him the confidence to keep the conversation going, possibly to the point where a number will be asked for…